Anonymous asked: i guess the "problem" is that people usually see sex as something dangerous or holy or dirty or anything other than "a normal thing that also happens irl", so they probably feel that imagining idols in a sexualized way and putting them in sexual situations just for the sake of your personal enjoyment is "wrong". idek what i'm saying, i just have this feeling.

A lot of that has to do with our socialization when it comes to sexuality, particularly with women. Women in particular are raised and taught to view sex as something that is tied to our morality - the idea of a “good” girl is equated with “virgin” (the whole concept of virginity is problematic as well). Our actions are not emphasized under this paradigm, but rather what we choose to do with our genitals. Which is fucking bullshit; how many people you choose to fuck or not fuck has nothing to do with what kind of person you are; you could choose to never have sex and be a completely awful person or you could choose to have sex with five hundred people and volunteer at a soup kitchen for all they know. The idea that sexuality has anything to do with moral value is ridiculous. And it’s clearly a patriarchal construct, as this is never extended to men; when we talk about what a “good” man is, we talk about strength, honesty, loyalty, etc.

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